Some people just leave me speechless sometimes.
OK, so the story goes that I have some of you adding me on facebook, and so does other people who happens to see my tagged photos and tried to add me. I'm sorry but I can't approve cause I do need some privacy to stay sane. I only add people I really know and have met in real life on my facebook. I'm not trying to be arrogant/sombong but realllyyyyyy people. Cmon, don't add me and when I try to tell you nicely why I can't add you, you diss me back. That's abit unfair to me, right?
So, as usual, this morning I had to reject a few people's friends request using my usual template, stating that I can't add them in my personal facebook, but I can add them in my Page. And here are some of the replies I've got:
So, as usual, this morning I had to reject a few people's friends request using my usual template, stating that I can't add them in my personal facebook, but I can add them in my Page. And here are some of the replies I've got:
Some even replied "Oh it's ok. I don't want to add you anyway"
Like, HELLO. You're the one who sent me the request???? 0_o
unbelievable...
really? just cause I rejected the requests I'm a bitch now?
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UPDATES!!!!!
wow, so I decided to have a "conversation" with this guy, over a hot cup of coffee...
well, virtually, that is.
and here is how it went,
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LATEST UPDATE!
he's now trying to be my friend -_-"
heh, people like this add entertainment in my life =P
I wonder what kind of people will I meet next?
- Rude, ego facebook adder (check)
- So-called nude photographer (check)
- panties collector (check)
- ??????
LOL ;D
I share your stance on the matter but I don't bother messaging them with justification. For people who I've not met, there's always Twitter. When I feel comfortable, I will either take the initiative to add in FB, or if they've added me I'll approve.
ReplyDeleteSome people just need to be needed to feel their existence justified.
/rant
i thnk u forgt to erase the name on top la miss kim..ppl will notice who sent u those msg
ReplyDelete-sara-
LoL. morons. what an arse that fella. either dia hodoh or maybe handsome tapi retarded. tsk tsk. adeh.
ReplyDeletePR BV LOL
Some people no brain. Just dont think about it ya. Take care
ReplyDeleteWhat a loser LOL. in shirt summore
ReplyDeleteJust like Stewart in The Bounty Hunter. Thing he has something special going on after saying "HI!"
AHAHAHHAHA
HAHA! what a bunghole.
ReplyDeleteSome people can't accept rejection ;-) Its their loss.
ReplyDeleteTerrible la. That person not worth adding at all. Now I'm trying to see the edges of the photo and the name length trying to guess who it is, hahaha!
ReplyDeleteLol hanie I so know you mean.
ReplyDeleteYou'll be surprised how your facebook newsfeed becomes so much more relevant after deleting people. http://ezralimm.blogspot.com/2010/01/cleanup-2010.html
I wiped out 300+ people and didnt notice a week later other than the news feed started becoming more relevant.
I feel sorry for that guy. He needs to get laid.
Peace out.
now i believe that.
ReplyDelete"EVERYONE CAN BE A MODEL"
well probably you should try to put yourself in their shoes.
ReplyDeletemaybe they just want to get to know you better, there's no harm right? but then you have all the right to do so.
so jyeah just stating my opinion. no offense yeah? :)
Anonymous above,
ReplyDeleteThere's no harm in wanting to make new friends BUT there's no reason for him to diss me like that when I have nicely explained that my personal fb is only for friends I know, but he can still add me on my page, isn't it?
Tell me, what's the reason for him to get aggravated? So what, out of 10 girls he added, 6 is a bitch to him? What an asshole -_-"
sokay hanie..some ppl just couldnt take NO as answer..i got rejected also by the way but seriouslyy i understand ur situation..cant simply added ppl,u never noe what was their real intention..u just try to be polite and they just cant freaking undrstnd that..
ReplyDeleteHaha.what a loser.
ReplyDeleteepic loser.
why bother to put yourself in a shoe of someone that is totally an asshole?who wanna b an asshole?
he shud accept the rejection and well,go do something else.
But if that person is sincere enough, he shouldn't dissed Hanie in the first place.
ReplyDeleteHe should have just accepted it. This is what you call tak tahu malu.
hi-fucking-larious. tossers such as these make my day.
ReplyDeletehanie...
ReplyDeletemaybe u should just ignore the ppl that u dont know. it would save you a lot of 'annoying-ness'. why bother being nice to ppl who are mean kn? if they sincerely wanted to be a friend or add u up,they wouldn't be so defensive over a small matter like that.
Anonymous 12:07 AM
ReplyDelete"well probably you should try to put yourself in their shoes. "
I dont think hani has a problem with people contacting her. She's the friendly type. But randomly getting people adding you on facebook is creepy. Approving it means that person can see all your pictures and wall posts and the like.
If that guy really wanted to "be friends", then why not just send a message? Or call? Or say hi to her in real life?
Having someone you dont know at all suddenly add you as a friend comes off as being creepy...or screams no-confidence at the very least.
If he had walked up to Hani and said hi and had a chat or something im sure Hani would approve without hesitation. Heck, i dont approve people that i've just met, but I think she would.
ah well, he added a laugh or two in my day so it's okay! =D
ReplyDeletePost his damn picture!
ReplyDeleteWhat an asshole. Sound nice at first but when kena rejected, he calls him a bitch.
I think sourgrape just some it all...
ReplyDeleteEPIC-NESS! LoL
ReplyDeleteepic fail nak buat kawan, that guy. oi tarak skill ka?? tsk tsk
ReplyDeleteSo much win. You showed him!
ReplyDeleteeh typo
ReplyDelete"he calls *her a bitch."
omg sorry hanie! LOL bad mistake :P I blame it o anger kayz? :P
EPIC FAIL.EPIC LOL.
ReplyDeletehaha~sheesh..wanna kao loi him la.what an attitude.
now i wanna a douche and say, what???mak dia xajar ke?:p
tudiaaa~douchee~
lolololololololol.
ReplyDeletetoo funny.
CHEEBAI he damn kao thick face. want fren with talk properly la kan. lol
ReplyDeleteHAHAHA kenakan dia balik. woots! cheebye he damn rude. wanan fren u talk properly la at least. now, no need to think of even being friends. lol
ReplyDeleteThis is more fun than watching soap opera. :)
ReplyDeletewhat a dummass... Nice one Hanie *wink*
ReplyDeletethis post is gold.
ReplyDeletethank you for both of you, i will cherish this moment that gave me a good smile.
dah kena reject pon..xdapat terima kenyataan~~
ReplyDeleteoh goddd this is funny. it's a oommon sense duh, no approval to strangers.
ReplyDeleteoh wow. suddenly i feel lucky u didnt reject my friend request last time. haha~
ReplyDeleteLOL what a joke! Don't worry, i think u nailed it :)
ReplyDeleteI gotta to say this is the most interesting post I've read so far in your blog.
ReplyDeleteSeriously I really impressed the way you handled this 'douche-bag-of-person' concerning the way he obnoxiously judged you through your action of rejecting his add in your Facebook.
Obsessively he shouldn't question anything regrading of your actions towards his add as it's anyone rights to keep their Facebook in personal or public state.
It's clearly that person has some serious problems & issues in social interaction, either in real world or cyber-world.
seriously, i dont see why you should justify rejecting a person, come on, normal people who are not 'models' also do get random friend requests, it does not make you special or anything. so maybe next time, forget about templates, it makes u sound arrogant. i simple reject would be better i believe.
ReplyDeleteMacam gampang orang ni...Hani, i think its better off to just ignore them without telling them..met these kind of ppl as well..
ReplyDeleteWell. yes u rejected dengan penuh sopan (dont get me wrong), but then "these" kind of ppl will never get it..siap cari gado..anyways babe, i love your blog..keep em up..
i think you no need to send msg saying that this fb is private or for friends only blablabla. kalau kau reject, reject je la. lepas tu buat taktau jela like i always did. takpayah acah-acah famous sorry takboleh add sini, add la my fan page. macam la artis atau model terkenal. erghhhh padahal model assignment je wakakaka
ReplyDeleteAnonymous: yes, that's what I'm doing now, I stopped sending out messages to people and I just reject. And for your information, the page bukan untuk I sebagai model (I tak penah cakap pun I ni model professional ke ape ke so jgn salah faham) the page is for the blog, for people to get updates with events and so on.
ReplyDeleteCan't help but snickered at Anonymous' comment up there:
ReplyDeletepadahal model assignment je
Right on! Hehehehe!
'I tak penah cakap pun I ni model professional...'
ReplyDeleteWho puts their DRESS SIZE on websites...and BEGGED for people's votes for some facebook competition (you did a post on this). What's next? Your weight? Your height? That's just pathetic.
yeah cara u story semua dah tau dah u ni perasan lebih.. mcm tu la.. hahahaha.. sbb tu la org menyampah kdg2..
ReplyDeletedont blame your haters pls, kadang2 u ada haters tak semestinya sbb u bagus, tapi kdg2 sbb org menyampah dgn gaya u, doesnt mean dorang jeles k
and biasalah selagi org tak suka, selagi tu baca. and u pun x henti2 dgn benda yg sama. nk wat mcm mana , thats u! haha so deal with it.
owkkaaayyyy whatever rocks your boat =)
ReplyDeleteHanie: HATERS is Our No #1 FANS
ReplyDeleteJuz ignored them k :)
Hidup SAAS ( eh tak pasal )
HAHAHA
Wtf anonymous, kalau dier dah tak suker cakap "no problem, thanks" and move on jer lah. Yang you free sangat nak gi blog dier pastu nak comment asal?
ReplyDeleteIf you hate it, don't come here genius. Go stalk some other girl's blog that you like.
i don't get these people actually.
ReplyDeletehere they are giving hate comments to you on your blog, telling you that you are pathetic
hey annonymous, how long have you been a fan of hanie's blog?
if i hated someone i seriously wouldnt bother opening their page or fb or profile or pics or BLOG!
sebenarnya , kalian tuh yg PATHETIC....tsk tsk.
kesian hanie.
may god forgive them for being epic losers.
wankers tend to post anonymously as they lack the balls to face up to people even online where things arent face to face. Quite pathetic really...
ReplyDeleteJeez, I have to agree with T. My jaw literally dropped when i read those comments fm anonymous. This is her effing blog and bloggers write what they like, their thoughts, their opinion. If you dont like it, go read some supermodel's blog. Since they are supermodels, i belive they have the right to act snobbish and bitchy in your book right?
ReplyDeleteAt least hanie has the liberty to talk nicely with that douche bag. if it was me, he gonna get it lah. i think you haters are just jealous. been reading her blog and i nvr once thought she's a stuck up rich spoiled brat. am not ass kissing and i have nvr met her in my life pun. These haters must nvr met some ppl i know yg tak kaya pun tapi berlagak mcm kaya.Rezeki masing2 lah kalau father dia ada duit nak bwk dia pergi vacay every month or buy every designer bags there is. kalau kau rasa dia x lawa pun, kenapa? tumbuh kudis ke kulit kau? (ok i lebih2 pulak defensive kan).i admit am a bit envious but nvr jealous. these haters should go get a life or better still, get laid.
Nell
hihihi you go girl..wow i can say that u are patient enough to handle them...u should proud of yourself, you handle them gracefully.
ReplyDeleteohmygawd im one new big fan of yours
ReplyDeleteyour 'wall of shame' 'don't push my buttons' and 'one for a sourass' posts were absolutely hilarious.
man,i had a good laugh.
oh.and you are just pure awesomeness :P!
oh my....he's so desperate to be ur friend..haha..!!whatever it is u handle it with maturity....
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